As I said on the About Us page, I am now a stay at home Mum, looking after J2 and J3, and while I love these boys with all my heart, I felt like I was losing myself. I wasn’t Vixen anymore, and Laura was barely hanging on, I was gradually becoming just Mama.
For some women this doesn’t seem to bother them, and I know that others would do anything to be called Mama, I appreciate that, and that’s okay, but it’s not me, I like to look to the future…
One day the boys will be adults and what will I do then?
Just exist until I’m called Grandma?
No. I need to be someone, have an identity of my own, not just the one that has been given to me by giving birth.
So, welcome to my corner of The Blogosphere, you may call me Laura, and maybe, one day, Vixen will start blogging too.